In the young adult motivational/self-help genre, this book should receive all the awards available! Paige Omartian is an extremely rare young lady with a passion for spurring young people to define and achieve their dreams, awaken their passions, and act on their calling. Diagnosed with cancer at age 10, she fought the fight and is living the lessons life has taught her so far. With real-life examples of young people who dared to live their purpose as teenagers and clear directions for defining your gifts, abilities, and passions, as well as an easy-to-follow formula for writing a life mission statement and putting it into immediate practice, Wake Up, Generation is a must-read for every teen and young adult!
I just can’t say enough good about this book. In a society of apathetic, bored teenagers, Paige Omartian is sounding the alarm to her generation to Wake Up! When it is released (I believe the projected date is September), I urge you to run to your nearest bookseller and buy a copy for every teenager you know. If you are a youth worker or Sunday school teacher, this would make a life-changing teaching series for your group- buy a copy for every student and read through it together; have the teens do the end of chapter challenges in class or as a homework assignment. Or better yet, host a young ladies’ weekend retreat (or a combined youth retreat) and spend the weekend developing a life action plan for every girl (and boy)! Can you tell I’m excited about this one? I can’t wait to get a copy for the teens in my church youth group and work through it with them!
I received a free copy of this book from the publisher and was not required to write a positive review.
“How not to get blindsided by your child’s teen years” – well, this subtitle certainly caught my attention. Being the mother of a 14 year old daughter, I jumped into this one with both feet, and I wasn’t disappointed. As the host of Parenting Today’s Teens (a national radio broadcast) and the residential counselor for Hearlight Ministries (a residential program for troubled teens), Mark Gregston offers first-hand insight into what teenagers are thinking and why they sometimes behave as they do. Tough Guys and Drama Queens is a beacon of hope for parents of teenagers. Gregston challenges the reader to adopt a proactive action plan for independence along with a list of top 5 rules (hills you are willing to die on) and mutually agreed upon consequences for infractions of these rules.
Relationship is the key theme for weathering the turbulent teen years. Parents must shift not only their style of parenting but also their expectations as their children begin making the transition into adulthood. His premise that parents and their teens actually share the common goal of having the teen grow into independence allows both the parent and child to collaborate on how to accomplish the goal. In his chapter on changing expectations, Gregston makes the following eye-opening statement: “The tendency for any parent is to feel that their child is choosing to play on the opposing team rather than on yours. That’s not always true. They’re just trying to find out what their position is on the team they’re playing on.” He concludes with some practical examples of ways to interact with your teen in the chapter, “Parenting Practices that Really Work.”
I cannot say enough positive things about Tough Guys and Drama Queens. It truly is the best insight I have read for keeping your teenager on your team! If you have a child between the ages of eleven and seventeen, I beg you to read this book!